HOW TO BE ASSERTIVE AT WORK WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF
“WHY!!! Did I just stand there without saying something?”
You are ambitious, driven, and full of good ideas,
BUT your ideas are always passed up in favor of the more dynamic, extraverted coworker.
You walk in to work ready to be seen for who you are and to make an impact. Today’s the day!
BUT your intentions are steamrolled when someone tells you what to do instead of hearing you out.
You are so ready to start taking on new opportunities, and start standing up for your ideas,
BUT you feel backed into a corner by someone else’s rules that leaves you afraid to show up in a new way.
Has that ever rung true? Have you ever wished you weren’t so nice? Have you ever wondered if you’re cursed to never be listened to, or maybe that you should just try being an a-hole? (Pardon my French.)
The truth is, it’s not that you’re too nice. Pretending to be someone else won’t make you any happier, and it won’t change anything.
You need to be ASSERTIVE. You need simple steps and strategies that let you show up and be seen with an air of authority without making a complete 180-overhaul on your personality.
Soon speaking up will become easier. Your team and your boss will value what you have to say, and they’ll be turning to YOU for ideas, not sidelining them.
I’m offering a pilot program How to be assertive without losing yourself starting in early January 2020. This is an intensive coaching program that guarantees results. (And I do mean GUARANTEE!)
I’d love for you to be part of it. Check out the details and the FAQ below, then book a call or enter your email and reply with “I’m interested in assertiveness training!” to sign up or to ask any questions.
Just do it by Friday, December 20th.
Part of the reason you’re not more assertive is that the right words don’t come to you at the right moment. We’ll work on responding faster and come up with the language that works for you.
Not only will you have the confidence to speak up, but you’ll come to expect it of yourself.
Let people see you for your strengths. You don’t have to change who you are to gain respect.
You know WHAT you want. I’ll show you HOW to get it.
HOW DOES IT WORK?
This is LIVE and PERSONALIZED COACHING. We will choose a time that works for YOU starting in early January and meet for THREE 45-MINUTE SESSIONS biweekly via Zoom. You’ll also get UNLIMITED EMAIL SUPPORT throughout the program.
HOW DO I SIGN UP?
Let’s set up a 15-minute no-obligation call:
1 – We can set up a mutually convenient time.
2 – I can address any questions and make sure that we’re a good fit.
3 – That’s how I process payments.
Either enter your email above and reply with “I’m interested in how to be assertive” OR set up a call directly.
WHAT’S A PILOT AND WHY WOULD I WANT TO BE PART OF IT?
The program is 99% formed, but having YOU as a client will help me finalize what to keep and what to toss in the future.
The benefit to you is:
- It’s waaay more personalized – I’m really trying to get to the root of what will work for you and what will give you results.
- It’s waaay more affordable – Working with a coach is an investment. But what I’m offering is a no-brainer.
- It may be gone if you don’t act now – I’m gung-ho to bring this program to life, but it might look different once it’s fully out. Future versions will be either part of a larger coaching package, or will not involve the personalized coaching you’ll get the first time around.
WHAT WILL I LEARN?
If you’ve spent years playing small, not speaking up, and just feeling like you can’t say what needs to be said – I’ll help you break that cycle. By the end of our time together you will:
1 – Have the confidence to speak to your boss as an equal,
2 – Stand up for your ideas in team meetings, and
3 – Ask for what you really want.
The framework is based around:
The words: Part of the reason you’re not more assertive is that the right words don’t come to you at the right moment. We’ll work on responding faster and come up with the language that works for you.
The confidence: Not only will you have the confidence to speak up, but you’ll come to expect it of yourself.
The authority: Let people see you for your strengths. You don’t have to change who you are to gain respect.
IS THERE REALLY A GUARANTEE?
I get what it’s like to question is it really worth it. It is. And I’m putting my money where my mouth is.
I never do this, but this program has a complete money back guarantee. If, after doing the work, you feel like you didn’t get what you came for, I’d be happy to pay you your money back.
CAN MY COMPANY PAY FOR IT?
If you plan to ask your company to reimburse you, I do provide a receipt for “Communication Training.” I still require a commitment and payment by Friday, December 20th, 2019 for you to get the insanely low price.